LA EVENTS: The Black Experience in a White 9-5

There’s a Facebook friend of mine that I’ve admired from a distance for some time named Shani Byard. My brother-friend DJ A-ski told me to awhile back to connect with this woman as she and I have much in common regarding the work we do. Shani is the founder/executive director of Message Media Ed: School of Black Leadership in the Digital Age. Often, Shani posts events that Message Media Ed is hosting and this week’s event is one I could not resist sharing. I’m doing to my very best to be in the house for this:

Message Media Ed’s Community Bridge Initiative and Monthly Lecture Series present… The Black Experience in a White 9-5″ featuring special guest Writer and Producer of the web series, “the Unwritten Rules,” Kim Williams!

Join us for a screening and interactive chat with Kim about the many nuances African Americans experience in a White dominated corporate company. Funny, enlightening, reflective stuff!

Thursday, April 18, 2013
6:30-8:30pm
@Message Media Ed
4923 W. Adams Blvd. LA 90016
Investment: $5 (Free for MME Members)
RSVP 323-708-2526 or info@messagemediaed.org

Message Media Ed’s Community Bridge Initiative is sponsored in part by The Village Health Foundation and LA County Supervisor Mark Ridley-Thomas.

Message Media Ed – School of Black Leadership in the Digital Age is the only Afro-Media Literacy professional development training center in the nation! We train Black and non-Black youth, adults, seniors, educators and leaders to become 21st Century visionaries, transcend media stereotypes, cultivate interracial understanding and close digital divides within Black communities and throughout institutions, non-profit organizations, businesses and learning spaces serving Black youth.

http://MessageMediaEd.org/
323-708-2526

LA EVENTS: Angel City Derby: A Day at the Races

CLIMB Inc. cordially invites you to Santa Anita Park for its spring fundraiser offering, the 3rd Annual Angel City Derby: Day at the Races, sponsored by City National Bank. With influence from the world renowned “Kentucky Derby”, CLIMB hosts a fun filled day designed for networking, fashion, style, and support of a worthy cause: our very own community. Tickets start at $35

Angel City Derby encourages (read: require) guests and CLIMB supporters to come dressed to impress, allowing yourself to embrace the Kentucky Derby theme and arrive in style and class. The Angel City Derby affair will be comprised of:

Complimentary Hors D’oeuvresGood MusicRaffle PrizesHorse Races (10), Gift BagsBest Dressed Contest,Best Female Hat Contest, and many more accents that will enhance the experience of our distinguished guests.

April 12, 2013
12-5pm
Santa Anita Park
285 W. Huntington Dr.
Arcadia, CA 91007
Enter & Park at Gate 6

C.L.I.M.B. Inc was established in 2005, CLIMB, Inc. is a 501(c)(3) community based non-profit organization based in Los Angeles, California with a mission to develop underserved youth to recognize their innate ability and potential to be competitive collegiate participants, stewards of their community, and effective global leaders.

Learn more about C.L.I.M.B. Inc. here

Single Parenting: The New Nuclear Family?

In the midst of scrolling through my Twitter timeline recently, I came across a tweet that sparked an hour-long debate . A guy tweeted about how he would “put his daughter on game” about what guys think so his daughter would never be “played”. A woman I followed retweeted it and added that every “black father” says that. She proceeded to say in another tweet black fathers rarely stay around to raise their children regardless. Keep in mind this is a young black woman in her early twenties who is single and does not have children.

Now let me stop you right there. Many people believe the notion of not taking anything on Twitter seriously because it’s on a social networking site, which holds some truth. However, I also believe we live in this parallel online universe where people are more likely to say things they wouldn’t ordinarily say because they’re hiding behind creative screen names. While places like Twitter are for venting and promotion, people do speak their minds, and at that point we need to pay close attention to what people aren’t saying vocally and what they’re typing instead.

Why is it that black men don’t stay around to raise their children? Why do we think it’s normal for children to be raised by a single parent? Why are we shocked when children are raised by both parents? Why aren’t we shocked when the children are left to be raised by their grandparents, who’ve presumably have already raised kids, while the parents roam around the city for the next fun thing to do? Why are our children getting pregnant at what seems to be a pandemic rate? I get that families go through the motions and many get divorced but at what point does that relieve the parent(s) of their parental duties? Why are we accepting this?

Many place the blame these issues that affect the black community on black people on rap music – which might hold some truth – but we also have a black president whom our children should be looking up to. I understand this change is not going to happen overnight but we need to take baby steps. Our children are growing up way too fast but that’s in large part because of the parents. Our children are listening to music and watching television programs and movies that are not age appropriate. A 10-year old should not know all the lyrics to Lil’ Wayne songs.  Perhaps these parents are leaving their children because someone left them and they weren’t taught better. It’s time for a change.

LA EVENTS: RockaYourSoul!

The Music Center celebrates Los Angeles’ own Alvin Ailey and his iconic dance masterpiece Revelations beloved by people around the world.

ROCK IT OUT

A rare chance to learn selections of Revelations from the best!
20-minute lessons, no experience necessary.

CREATE YOUR OWN

Quilt portrait squares and Revelations-inspired fans.
Ages 5+. Online sign-up required by Apr 4 at musiccenter.org/rocka

RAISE YOUR VOICE

Gospel in the park.Come prepared to sing.

Gather ’ROUND AT 4PM!

For a dancing-singing-fan-waving-soul-stirringoh-rocka-my joyous celebration.

Storytelling, DJ, food trucks and more!

Details are as follows:

RockaYourSoul!
April 6, 2013 @ 1:00 pm – 5:00 pm
WHERE:
Grand Park between Grand and Hill
200 North Grand Avenue
Los Angeles,CA 90012
COST: FREE

On Jan Perry*

This year’s Los Angeles Mayoral contest features four candidates with a reasonable chance to become L.A.’s next mayor. Two will advance past today’s primary ballot to compete in a runoff contest to determine who will succeed outgoing mayor Antonio Villaragosa as Los Angeles’ 42nd mayor. One of those four candidates is council woman Jan Perry, the lone African-American in the race. Polling suggests she trails rivals Eric Garcetti and Wendy Gruel going into today’s election, but Ms. Perry still has a chance to make it to the run off, and possibly to become Los Angeles’s first female, and first black female, (and first Jewish black female at that) mayor in her history.

Jan Perry has served as a member of the city council for twelve years, and finds herself at the end of her career on the council due to term limits. In her time on the city council, Ms. Perry has certainly had an impact. She is credited (and criticized by some) for having aggressively paved the way for the renewed development of Downtown Los Angeles, pushing the city to allow and incentivize the construction of new hotels, offices and billboards during her time on the council. New construction is often an inconvenience for residents, especially in cities that already have a good deal of it. Even so, during a time when jobs are scarce and business is not flourishing in Los Angeles (and certainly not in South Los Angeles) Jan Perry has brought work and commerce to L.A.

Like her opponents, Jan Perry has conceded what we all know, that the city of Los Angeles faces a desperate fiscal outlook due in large part to extravagant city pension, healthcare plans and salaries. Jan Perry has committed to asking city workers to contribute ten percent to the cost of their health care, as well as renegotiating contracts with DWP workers, whose increasing salaries have particularly burdened the city budget. With a reputation for being a tough, even ruthless negotiator (so much so that some say that she really does not negotiate as much as she bulldozes her opposition), it would seem that Perry has the focus and resolve to achieve changes in this area if she is serious about it. At the same time it can’t be ignored that Jan Perry has sat on the city council (along with three of her opponents) during this time of fiscal deterioration, and so directly or indirectly bears some of the blame.

Nevertheless, though a bit ironically, the strongest endorsement of Jan Perry’s character seems to have come from her own mayoral opponents…all four of them. When asked at a debate at Sinai Temple whom each candidate would endorse if they themselves were not running, each one without exception cited Jan Perry, noting her commitment to principle and her personal integrity. It is not often that one sees such unanimity of respect among politicians for a single opponent. Whether or not the voters of Los Angeles will hold her in such high regard remains to be seen.

*Contributors express views independently and individually. The thoughts and opinions expressed by one do not necessarily reflect the views of all (or any) of the other contributors. Indeed, the breadth of the contributors views and perspectives is a key strength of the commentary expressed on Black Is.