Fellas, if you really want to learn how to seduce your woman there are a number of steps you can take to achieve your goal. Now, cold streaks are bound to happen to even the best of us from time to time. Maybe, what you got going on, is such that you have never even gone to that special place with your lady yet. What ever it is, I am here to tell you that if you listen and do the some simple stuff, you, as I like to say, can get laid!
So if you are asking yourself, “How do I seduce my woman?,” here are a few simple steps to abide:
1 – First off, start by touching her playfully and lovingly on a more frequent basis. These can be very innocent touches – to her knee, her shoulder, her hair. Touching another person releases a natural chemical in the skin that brings warm, pleasant feelings to her body. Even casual touches can go a long way toward arousal. So, reach out to her (literally) and let her know that you have warm feelings toward her.
2 – Drop her an e-mail(or text) with a love poem, or few mushy lines of affection, now and then. Sometimes, a casual, surprise e-mail or text will do wonders in terms of awakening her desire. You may find that she is pleasantly surprised at your gesture. Keep your communications short and on a casual level – nothing too heavy or serious, and do not write too much because you will risk boring her.
3 – If someone else flirts with you through the course of your day, let your lady know that it happened. You are not trying to make her mad. Just treat the flirting incident like it was cute and that you were flattered by it, but assure her that you only have eyes for her. Jealousy, when played the right way, can be a turn-on. (But, if you’re still in the early stages of the relationship, you might want to hold on this one)
4 – Treat your woman like a princess. Notice I didn’t say queen. You’ve seen all the Disney animations and cute little chic flics that always show the princess being swept off her feet. One of the easiest ways to do this is to show her that you care by celebrating special days like her birthday. But, even better, celebrate the little things, like when she looks particularly attractive one day or does her hair or makeup a certain way. Point out how good she looks and how much you find her attractive. Even if you she didn’t just get her hair done, let her know how extra beautiful she looked today.
5 – If you are having a hard time getting over that last hurdle – as if she is almost willing to let you seduce her but then she backs off for no apparent reason – you need to start an open dialogue about sex with your lady. Remember, she may have a hang-up or two that you could help her overcome through talking about it. Aside from touch, visual stimulation, and smell, dialogue can be (believe it or not) very arousing. Once you have cleared the air about any hang-ups, she may have about having sex, subtly shift the conversation toward a more sexy direction. Ask her about her turn-ons – what does she like? What does she fantasize about? This step is all about timing, and not coming off as too eager to want to get some.
Seducing a woman is not an exact science. Some of these steps may not work at all on your lady. However, there are some pretty clear-cut things you can do to steer the situation in the right direction. Do not underestimate the power of touch, sight, and the spoken and written word as you work to seduce your girlfriend. Just remember, the path to seduction starts with more closeness in your relationship.
If all else fails, remember these words; “yes honey, you’re right, and I’m sorry.” They may not sound seductive, but they’ll get you laid.